May 2013

Orientation Registration

Welcome to New Student Orientation!

Move-in Day is on Thursday, August 29. Orientation days are Friday, August 30 to Monday, September 2nd. Please fill out the below form to register.

Time Management

TIME MANAGEMENT

Managing your time successfully implies accomplishing what is most important for you. When you don’t accomplish what you truly want, you may feel confused, compromised, and frustrated. Many people try to use time management techniques that work for others, only to be disappointed. Often this is because they don’t also identify the goals most important to them and gear the techniques toward those goals.

Test Anxiety

TEST ANXIETY

Generally, we all experience some level of nervousness or tension before tests or other important events in our lives. A little nervousness can actually help motivate us; however, too much of it can become a problem – especially if it interferes with our ability to prepare for and perform on tests.

 

Dealing with Anxiety

The first step is to distinguish between two types of anxiety. If your anxiety is a direct result of lack of preparation, consider it a normal, rational reaction.

Suicide Prevention

SUICIDE PREVENTION

Why Do People Kill Themselves?

The common link among people who kill themselves is the belief that suicide is the only solution to a set of overwhelming feelings. The attraction of suicide is that it will finally end these unbearable feelings. The tragedy of suicide is that intense emotional distress often blinds people to alternative solutions…yet other solutions are almost always available.

We all experience feelings of loneliness, depression, helplessness, and hopelessness, from time to time.

Stress Management

 

STRESS MANAGEMENT

What Is Stress?

Stress is the “wear and tear” our bodies experience as we adjust to our continually changing environment; it has physical and emotional effects on us and can create positive or negative feelings. As a positive influence, stress can help compel us to action; it can result in a new awareness and an exciting new perspective.

Self Injury

SELF-INJURY HELP, SUPPORT, AND TREATMENT

Self-harm can be a way of coping with problems. It may help you express feelings you can’t put into words, distract you from your life, or release emotional pain. Afterwards, you probably feel better—at least for a little while. But then the painful feelings return, and you feel the urge to hurt yourself again.

Procrastination

OVERCOMING PROCRASTINATION

Procrastination technically refers to the avoidance of a specific task or work which needs to be accomplished. But this technical explanation doesn’t begin to capture the emotions triggered by the word. For most of us, the word procrastination reminds us of past experiences where we have felt guilty, lazy, inadequate, anxious, or stupid–or some combination of these.

Perfectionism

PERFECTIONISM

  • Do you feel like what you accomplish is never quite good enough?
  • Do you often put off turning in papers or projects, waiting to get them just right?
  • Do you feel you must give more than 100 percent on everything you do or else you will be mediocre or even a failure?

If so, rather than simply working toward success, you may in fact be trying to be perfect. Perfectionism refers to a set of self-defeating thoughts and behaviors aimed at reaching excessively high unrealistic goals.

Loneliness

LONELINESS

Growth and change during college years produces a variety of feelings in students. In addition to feelings of excitement and anticipation, there may also be feelings of loneliness. Loneliness is not necessarily being alone. We may be alone for long periods without feeling at all lonely. On the other hand we may feel lonely in a familiar setting without really understanding why. The best way to begin to understand loneliness is to examine some of the ways people experience it.

Helping Distressed And Distressing Students

HELPING DISTRESSED AND DISTRESSING STUDENTS

Consider the following scenarios…

-    A student stands up in class and shouts at the top of his lungs about being mistreated, misunderstood, and that he will show everyone what “the truth” is.
-    A student arrives late to class, appears intoxicated, and stumbles on his way to his seat.